Fare thee well Mary Kagure
On Wednesday December 21st, 2011, Mary Kagure will be laid to rest, exactly one week after she was brutally murdered by someone she had loved, her fiance. As i blog this photos, i remember the day we were shooting them. Mary was excited about this photoshoot, which we did on Friday December 9th, 2011 at Central Park, (the park next to Uhuru Park). We would have done this photoshoot two months ago but we kept postponing due to various reasons. On this particular Friday, she really insisted that we have to do it. We agreed that we will do it at 5pm after the day’s work. Throughout the afternoon, she kept reminding me about it, she insisted that we have to do. I could not understand why she wanted the photos done on this particular day.
The following week, on Tuesday evening, she sat next to me at my desk to look at her pictures and told me how she wants to print them and have a large print that she can frame and hang in her house. “I have a very nice frame in my house, finally, i will put it to use,” she told me. We agreed that she will collect all the photos on Wednesday. That was never to be. That Wednesday morning she was killed at 6am. She was stabbed several times on the neck and chest. She died on the spot, helpless. She never got to collect her pictures.
The large framed print she wanted to hang in her house, will instead be on her casket, other people will be looking at it while mourning her death. I keep thinking, “if only it would have hanged in her house as she had desired.”
Just like many other people have countless questions to ask, i equally have many of them. Questions that will never be answered for it is only God who has the answers. God alone knows why Mary’s journey on earth had to come to an end in such a brutal manner. When He created her, He knew Mary before she was even conceived in her mother’s womb, and he all the days of her life as he says on Psalms 139.
Her son, Nathan, one and half years old, has lost a mother. Her family has lost a daughter, a sister, an aunt and a niece. We her friends, have lost a charming friend and workmates have lost a colleague. Just to think of the manner life was snuffed out of her, pain cuts through our stomach.
As Mary is laid to rest, i am reminded the words of this song by Dolly Parton, ‘In the Sweet by and by.’
There’s a land that is fairer than day
And by faith we can see it afar
For the father waits over the way
To prepare us a dwelling place there
In the sweet by and by
We shall meet on that beautiful shore
In the sweet by and by
We shall meet on that beautiful shore

We shall sing on that beautiful shore
The melodious songs of the blest
And our spirit shall sorrow no more
Not a sign for the blessing of rest

In the sweet by and by
We shall meet on that beautiful shore
In the sweet by and by
We shall meet on that beautiful shore

In the sweet by and by
We shall meet on that beautiful shore
In the sweet by and by
We shall meet on that beautiful shore
In the sweet by and by
In the sweet by and by, ohh